If…..

…you can be a nice person to at least one person you have lived beautifully

….you can be soft to at least one person you have a heart

…you can be kind to at least one person you are a human

…you can make at least one person smile you are a delight

…you can show faith in at least one person you have given chances to possibilities

…you can drop all your fears in front of one person once indeed at least you loved truly!

After all we all live in IF’s (conditions) and BUT’s (reason)…

Just that these few genuine IF’s will create less IF’s and more WHY NOT’ s?

Definitely more power within and life around. It restores the faith in our being because

No One Is You And That Is Your Power!

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POWER…

As I close my eyes, inhale(interpreting as to… what is power to me), all that comes to my mind –POWER WITHIN, WOMAN POWER,POSITIVITY!
As I open my eyes it’s GRATITUDE ! And when I look around here and there its so many things and varied context- manpower, political power! As I go further away from myself the line between POWER and CONTROL blurs!

To me everything positive is power. I am full of positivity, Which makes me extremely powerful! So What’s MY super power?

It’s…

A kind word

A genuine compliment

A thoughtful gesture

An extra effort

A helping hand

A listening ear

A warm touch

A honest opinion

Fearless attitude

A Smiley face

A Content soul

A Calm mind

Never underestimate the power of these!

Have you ever heard of man power? Nah! It’s manpower always. But you do hear about WOMAN POWER! Why because she is the creator, sustainer and potential destroyer ( hehe, I mean..why not? Who has the power to create, can also destroy).

GRATITUDE is an attitude of appreciation. Appreciation enhances the beauty ten folds. Be it people, health, relationships, anything that adds value, comfort, safety, security to you. Eventually making you more powerful reinforcing faith in yourself, people around and your life events.

As I go further … What do I see? Control freak people, clinginess, conceitedness, people putting you down for their needs and interest ( using their powers so that they can use you = negative power i.e. control ).

Power beautifies things around whereas Control abuses it. ( I choose not to talk about how people, things, emotions, positions have always been manipulated. Highlight the positives and just make yourself aware of the negatives.That’s what I follow).It is our choice absolutely what we choose to become.

The Abuser or Appreciator.

Never allow anyone or anything diminish your power!

power of WORDS…

Power of a Child…WARMTH!

Power of a Mother.. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!

Power of a Family and Siblings.. SUPPORT!

Power of Spouse..TOGETHERNESS!

Power of Friends… ACCEPTANCE!

Few are blessed with genuine people around, few always get tested but that’s when we need to reinforce our power within. To walk our journey. No one can do if for us. Own it! Live it!

Power is in your Being!

Realise your Power!!!

So, can an outside source or a person make u powerful?

NO! no one can make you that, nor anything. You can only be full with guilt, sorrow, rudeness

You can only be hollow with hurt, disappointments

You can only be less of You!!!

All the Power is within..

You become Powerless

Only when,

You become without!

You Are Special, Because God made You!

Never Forget

NO#ONE#IS#YOU#AND# THAT# IS #YOUR# POWER

Personal Note & BV Details#05

My dear parents and reader friends , the series of  blog posts  on being a parent  is all my personal experience. This blog marks the closure to my series of 05 blog posts. It is my growth, transition, discovery. As I penned in my introductory blog, it’s my journey within.  From a 1st time mommy to a person, may be who has become a lot  calmer, a lot  more sorted, a lot more  human, a lot more  content, a lot more grateful, above all a lot more ME!

I write on topics which are close to my heart. I try  to practise what I write, write  what I believe  in.  One of it, is Bala Vihar ( BV).  It’s the need for every child, irrespective  of any religion or community.


Greeting each other with a Hari Om! Jai Jinendra! Sat Sri Akal! Jai Shree Ram! Saying more of any one of these  would not make me less of my community or more of other. Also BV doesn’t  promote or support one particular  deity or any particular religion. The only statement-  is maximum happiness for maximum time, for maximum people!!!


Rather it will strengthen the roots of any religion for that matter become more acceptable towards people of other  community and grow together as a family around the world.


BV is a way to strengthen their roots and keep their heart to family, values, culture and realise  the essence of life.


Also it is absolutely  Free! Free! Free! It just costs your  time and effort to spare 90mins every  sunday mornings ( I understand sundays are lazy days). I see it  as a day to get charged up, it is like time to collect  all the super  powers within. All set to cast a spell on the world with your super power.


I will be lying if I say-  I did not dream of my child performing on stage or coming on television or getting medals or scoring 1st in sports and academics. We all do😁 It’s  just  that I realised (off late)  there is more to life than all this.  


I will  also be lying if don’t  mention that  when I was sick ( recently) all that mattered was how well he spoke to me, how patient and polite he was to me, how well he took care of me ( thoda over hogaya shayad, but it’s  a fact!). As a parent  we must  teach our  children what  actually  matters !


With so much of negativity around  it is important  to nurture positivity in our  child from childhood , as to they become responsible citizens and make not only us proud,  but live humbly proud of all what each one of us is blessed with.


Below is the link  of BV centre across Mumbai-

https://www.google.co.in/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.chinmayamissionmumbai.com/&ved=0ahUKEwiTtKLv2vfUAhXJrY8KHR5dA10QFghuMAU&usg=AFQjCNFGY5EN90WT9CV_WkBvtw0r_Bp9Dg


Chinmaya Mission official website-

www.chinmayamission.com

(It’s  a worldwide  NGO, they have centres across the world, you can always  google the centres  closest  to your house).


(P.S. – A heartfelt thank you to Swami Nirbhayanandji and Hems)


Here comes my blog stars!!!

REASON….to RISE and SHINE!

I question alot. I reason alot, to find answers in my conquest to live my life more fully and more meaningfully.Question my intent, reactions,  words, action, inaction, change. Questiong is nothing but reasoning yourself, your thought process,  which in turn becomes your choices.It is INTENTIONAL LIVING,  meaning making choices for your life based on your greatest values,  not on the habits of others. Questioning the choices and choosing with a reason.Which you are solely responsible for.

‘Believe Nothing, No Matter Where You Read It Or Who Has Said It, Not Even If I Said it, Unless It Agrees With Your Own Reason And Your Own Common Sense’ I love this saying by Gautam Buddha. Humble and thought provoking.

                           To live is a beautiful thing in itself.  But as long as we live we must keep learning to live. Learning to grow, to rationalise, to prioritise, to have a perspective, to persist, to be thoughtful, to nurture,to believe,to aim, to rise above, to hold on, to let go, to stand up,  to look beyond. Learning to be a sport, to develop a healthy sense of humour, to be aware, to stay fit,to be balanced, to be polite,to be poised, to be patient, to reflect . Learning to be a more newer and more youer with every new dawn.To live in the best possible version of ourselves. I believe each one of us, are the most beautiful,  unique being created.  We rarely dare to delve within!!!        

                  Dare to be you!! ( upcoming blog).

                  So is living an art? Yes it is, I say. Art is beautiful, thoughtful , boundless, pleasant, hardwork, personification,  thought provoking and the art is artist himself. Your life should be your work of art and no one elses. Doesn’t matter how many flaws it has. The idea is to learn, grow, pick the best, move on to next level.We all are, our own artist in our own unique way painting the picture of our lives. Adding a little more beauty around in our own way. Just make sure the picture you paint is worth every choices you make in life. 

                      Rise and Shine with every better choices, with rational thinking. Own it. Live it. No regrets. More contentment. More happiness. Stay Blessed.Stay Joyful…. mwuahhh😘

(P.S. Reasons don’t really work when its emotions. For me also when its family and friendship .Also dieting doesn’t seem to work, when it’s blogging. I have been hogging mahnnn…for bloggginggg.. So much to thinkkk…even more to eattt.But it’s worth it😊)