Behna Blog (BB)- PREAMBLE.

Meri (my) behno (sisters)!!!  Breakfree!! Loosen up! Gear up! RAISE YOUR VOICE! Time for  some crazy chit chat. May be Some serious stuff as well.

The whole idea behind Behna blog (BB) is that why don’t we question? Especially women ( men will never question, so they are not in the picture! Poor guys look  better answering them, hehe) . Questioning to me is like my birthright, because until and unless I don’t question how would I get clarity. Also how would I’ll  be sure that what I know is correct. Wake up sistas!

question ! Get your thinking caps on!

BB  rules-

That it has no rules.

Just damn all! Say what you like.

Be yourself.

Talk as if no one’s listening.

Don’t hold back.

Why should men read bb-

It’s simple because we are the feminine and we are the most powerful, hence it’s safer  to be nice to powerful and bow in humility and accept that they are jugheads without us… Hehe!.Anyway…

 

What I meant –

Women are powerful, in ways different than men. And thus to bridge the difference, They should read.Accept and respect power in all forms, Men should learn that.


I am  looking forward-

Connecting  women across the world, irrespective of backgrounds or degrees or knowledge.

(It’s all about learning to speak up, all that matters!)

exchange of new unconventional ideas, perspective, dimensions, experiences,thoughts. Arguments, debates.

To Gaining clarity and reasoning. To better our understanding, to live in the highest standards of our being.

Learning about new cultures ( interests me alot).

Discussing different facets of woman.


Dedicated to-

To the spirit of womanhood across the globe.

Note of Gratitude to My Reader Friends:)

Hello my dear reader friends.How are you guys doing? Me doing super. I feel glad and proud that I have made successful 10 posts, taa daa in span of 11months (which is an achievement for me guys). Woo hoo!! Thank you soooooo much for your time and support,it is encouraging. 


Thank you to all my friends who helped me in one way or the other, sometimes being my editor ,at times answering my questions, helping me get better. Bas ab ro padungee, ittee khusheeeeeeee.LOL.


NOTE SPECIALLY TO MY FEMALE READERS-

I have this suggestion wherein  I  want your help, guidance , views,  thoughts to start this monthly series blog titled BEHNA ( sister) BLOGS. Wherein we talk just about anything and everything that matters to us. Just about whatever on earth. We can talk from anything  dead serious to just about any nonsense.

like-

* Why is that men are called ‘male chauvinist pigs’?

*Why women are so obsessed with how they are looking?

*Why is that ‘ek aurat hee dusri aurat ki dushman hoti hai’ ( one woman is the enemy of another woman)?

*Why is the percentage of women so less in military in India?

*How the hell does nagin ( television series in India) get highest TRPs?

*Why is that recently senseless lyrics sell in Indian cinema?


Behna Chup Na Rehna ( sisters don’t stay quiet)!

Just flood in with questions, suggestions, discussions. Damn with every worry, judgments ,repercussions. Just pen down whatever!


To – bakkbakkingjay@gmail.com


..dhishkyaau..dhishoom…!!!!

Areyy sunn naa.. pata chala… kya??? Woh hai naa 203 waale Sharma ji..wunki beti..haa wahi pehle number waali? haan haan.. Sunna tha chakkar chal raha hai, hogaya… ‘DIVORCE’…. Waaaahhh! One more new juicy gossip.Sooooooo much fun I tell you. Mazza aagaya!!! Aj khaanaa jyada jaayega pait mein..Strange… But true isn’t it???

Majority of us discuss someone’s personal life without having slightest knowledge on it. Dude!!… On second thoughts, why have knowledge???  Remember ‘GREAT MINDS DISCUSS IDEAS,  AVERAGE MINDS DISCUSS EVENTS,  SMALL MINDS DISCUSS PEOPLE’ said Eleanor Roosevelt. I say  ‘you choose… your mind’. And by the way how does anyone’s personal life affect us?….. Ohhh!!! Ohhh!!! Oh!!! Entertainment!!! Entertainment!!! Entertainment!!! Is it??? Chalo phir thik hai. Kuch toh entertainment hona chaiye life main. Woh bhi free free free.

Divorces pe essay nai likhna.Nor is that I wanna favour any gender. Or speak for and against it. Divorces these days are too common for whatever reasons or for no reason at all. It is possibly one of the most devastating decision of any couple’s life. It affects direct families and children. The shocking rise in rates of divorces, is questioning the very base of institution of marriage. Also affecting the social structures on the whole.                            

              Marraige is a beautiful institution.  Which enables two people involved grow, learn, nurture. Becoming the two most important pillars and foundation of having a family. Before deciding on marriage couples should not decide the circumstances, because circumstances are different post marriage. Keep it real,practical and not fanciful like hindi movies. I mean like those Barjatiya movies. LOL

             Moreover ‘divorcee mahila’ ko humarey sabhya  Bhartiya samajh main bohat I mean really bohat respect dee jaati hai. Ke bas aap poocho hee mat. Kahin  bhi jaao..toh khuss poos ‘ divorcee hai??’..’divorcee hai??’… ‘divorcee hai??’.. What the hell…alien nai, insaan hai. No one bloody hell call names to men.

Men get their prospective bride in a blink of an eye lid ( kabhi kabhi back to back do teen shaadiya…wah). Women are just pushed into a marriage, if the guy is rich or  poor. Bas mil gaya ladka kara do shaadi.I also think men are weaker emotionally than women ( mard ko dard nai hota,  agar ho bhi toh, who cares??? Kaun sunnta hai bechaarey ki).

According to me it’s not only a man and a wife bond.  But every beautiful bond is not easy. Actually anything beautiful in life is not easy. Hate is easy, Love isn’t. Rude is easy, Polite isn’t. Hurt is easy, Nurture isn’t. Letting Go is easy, Holding On isn’t. At the end it’s between you and yourself. Not between you and others. ‘What you seek. Is seeking you’- Rumi.

We are what we speak, above all what we speak for others, defines us and not them.’ BE A VOICE, NOT AN ECHO.’ Get a life mahn!!!! Seriously bro B-)