Reckon your REFUGE!

= the state of being safe or sheltered from pursuit, danger, or difficulty.
Refuge is an escape from one thing may be we cannot face to the other thing which may be gives us peace or make us feel safe. Safe is all what we want to feel. Security is what we want. We humans fear too much, hence we have this need to feel safe constantly.
With the series of disappointment , hurt, failure, our source of refuge keeps changing, also may be with age it does too.
All of us seek refuge in something or the other. It may be a person ( friends, spouse, parents, children) ,God, it could be music, art, poetry, travel, books, movies, gyming, gaming, gossiping,slumbering, slogging at work, savings, bank balance, lavish shopping spree, degrees, medals, fame, material gains, addiction, etc,etc. Phew!!! It’s endless number of things.
All these things may give us peace and safety but, it is all temporary (ooi ma!!! Too philosophical? Naaahh!!). All this to me is hiding but not sheltering from danger. We run from one burrow to another all our life. Seeking safety from danger around us. When all the danger is within us.
Dangers like misunderstanding, ignorance, ego, needless hurtful talks and comments, lie, anger, rigidity, pointing fingers, lie, self obsession, false self identity, superiority, animosity. You name it we do it, without a second thought.
Danger is within us, then how can we get peace from an outside source?
The real refuge I say is within us, do away all the dangers within and you are safe everywhere and trust me from evrything ,then- ‘Almighty becomes your compass and your soul your Google map.’

……..à suivre!!!

Note of Gratitude to My Reader Friends:)

Hello my dear reader friends.How are you guys doing? Me doing super. I feel glad and proud that I have made successful 10 posts, taa daa in span of 11months (which is an achievement for me guys). Woo hoo!! Thank you soooooo much for your time and support,it is encouraging. 


Thank you to all my friends who helped me in one way or the other, sometimes being my editor ,at times answering my questions, helping me get better. Bas ab ro padungee, ittee khusheeeeeeee.LOL.


NOTE SPECIALLY TO MY FEMALE READERS-

I have this suggestion wherein  I  want your help, guidance , views,  thoughts to start this monthly series blog titled BEHNA ( sister) BLOGS. Wherein we talk just about anything and everything that matters to us. Just about whatever on earth. We can talk from anything  dead serious to just about any nonsense.

like-

* Why is that men are called ‘male chauvinist pigs’?

*Why women are so obsessed with how they are looking?

*Why is that ‘ek aurat hee dusri aurat ki dushman hoti hai’ ( one woman is the enemy of another woman)?

*Why is the percentage of women so less in military in India?

*How the hell does nagin ( television series in India) get highest TRPs?

*Why is that recently senseless lyrics sell in Indian cinema?


Behna Chup Na Rehna ( sisters don’t stay quiet)!

Just flood in with questions, suggestions, discussions. Damn with every worry, judgments ,repercussions. Just pen down whatever!


To – bakkbakkingjay@gmail.com


…aao adopt karein!

‘Unless you can truly enhance their lives, you should not have childern’-Sadhguru. True that !! A child is a bundle of joy, a promise for a potential better future. A child is a responsibility, that too a freaking serious one. Cannot afford to be unsure. Raising a child, is raising our consciousness at every level of our day to day being.

So my post today is on ‘adoption’.  Why adoption,  because Bharat main no one really gives it a thought. Khudko nai sambhaal saktey sala!!! ADOPTION..LOL!!!  Itnaa sab mehanga hai…baap re…this inflation suckssss!!!  Aur haan..’ Paraaye Khoon Ko Waaris Kaun Banayega?’ aur ”haila!!! adoption kyu?” Keeping all this aside. Why is that we are still not open  about it??? I ask each one of us. I am talking about non-compulsive adoption. Wherein a couple should give a thought of adopting atleast one child and  have one biological child, jaise ” hum do humarey do.”

Dude am I making sense???? Please comment, exchange your views. Waise sach main kisiko padi nai!!! Why is that the idea of adoption not only hidden in thick books of wise words,but stays there only collecting dust. We are no less than puppets or animals kept in zoo where the ring master is the society governing our life.. Isn’t it? So how does one cut this cultural and social web of being monitored?

http://cara.nic.in/InnerContent.aspx?Id=140#Register Online

(Hoping that someone will consider:)

                       I can’t do everything but I can do something. Something for the four legged being. Animals may not literally speak. But they do speak language of love, which is easy to understand.  Wherein words are often misunderstood. Looking after an animal in our vicinity and around. If I see an animal abuse, stop it, and don’t you dare forget to beat the shit of that coward. Doing small things like feeding them, giving water or just stroke with love to these wonderful furry souls. Makes you feel so wonderful about our own selves. Trust me dude… Just try it. And if you can adopt one and foster… Voilà !!!!! You are in for an affair of a lifetime,  no break up, no make up. Just everlasting selfless love and warmth.  You know what ‘ The Best Things In Life Are Rescued’.

http://bluecrossofindia.org

(dont be a vagabond, be a Bond.. James Bond. Rescue. Foster. Care. DON’T WALK AWAY)

Adoption isn’t only claiming over a life. It is about nurture, care, selfless love and sincere commitment for a  better world. Fostering not only young ones of a being but also inanimate being . Yes, why not inculcate a simple habit like watering  a plant around you. I mean isn’t that wow… To see the beauty around you grow,  with your simple effort.

Effort is what makes all the difference. Difference in some one’s life, in environment, in society. Also very important is to adopt a lifestyle, a positive attitude and values which takes us closer to our own selves. Adopt a value oriented approach towards life more than price oriented. After all, ‘ A Little Effort Is More Memorable, Than Expensive Gifts’

(P.S. Inputs by Shera and Chonty..thank you guys:)

…Let’s Get Rolling!!!!

…. thoughts travel far..words are secondary..  words if used correctly can create magic. This journey of words hopefully create some magic somewhere . Not only words and mind, this journey is  about each one of us who believe in themselves,  in posssiblities, who trying to find answers,  simplfying things,  questioning,  reasoning,  achieving,  developing, wishing,  aspiring, inspiring, being a positive change, in having goals,  to add a bit more beauty, quality, bring a difference around. Basically, who are actually living and probably like a wake up call to those who are just surviving.

I am no one to teach nor I am here to preach,  I am here to reach the hearts through the things close to my heart, in the most real,  unadulterated, raw form( no fakeness, no flowery,dreamy language,  just straight forward,  will try to keep it unbias). An endeavour to create a little more thoughtfulness,  mindfulness,  a bit more sensitivity (not forgetting practicality), getting a bit more alive, ” To leave the world in better condition in which you and I found” in words of Mr.Baden Powell.

 

..journey…discover…the ME!

  • Like every other new role in life, there is always something new to learn from it.As I embark upon being a Blogger, looking forward to discover a new dimension to my personality… exploring the untravelled roads within, getting in to the depths of my being, unravelling the different side to Me, beginning the journey of getting closer to myself. The Journey Of My Mind in combination with various responsiveness to stimuli..ha ha..’ thoughts travel far’ someone told me,they do, I belive it too. Let’s see how far….
  • (P.S…Blogger bannu?? Nai bannu?? Bannu?? Nai bannu?? Aur FINALLY annarth ho hee gaya..bann gayi ‘BLOGGER’… Wah!!! Khushi ke annsu..mummy…what an emosonal moment..THANK YOU to Chonty and Shera for it and Mr.Ad. Man a.k.a Cokroch for the name[bakkbakkingjayshree].. abhi sab pede baaton.)