Self Justification ... (Psychology describes)

how, when a person encounters a situation in which a person’s behavior is inconsistent with their beliefs, that person tends to justify the behavior and deny any negative feedback associated with the behavior.

Oh! come on.

how, .many many times we all have done that and still do it….


For example:-

#Misbehave then justify your behavior.

#Use inappropriate words then justify your language.

These are two aspects to justification

#not owning
We just don’t want to own up our wrong behavior, misconduct, bad decisions and just about anything what we find negative.

We also want to find REASONS to validate what we don’t want to own up because we would be criticised.

Justification is like you act and justify it.

Say it and then justify it.

I mean..


To whom?

and for what?


Act/ Say it with all the reasons

and leave no reasons at all to justify it.

Just try it people. You would feel no less than a superhuman.

Nullify reasons

Quantify your actions

Justify Nothing

Beautify Your Being

Just be the damn YOU.

As I always say…


(P.S. justification is a waste of time and energy. It is also poor poor sense of self. Mystification is better than justification. Just Go For It lol)


Lost and Found.

#Lose yourself in music to find a Connection

#Lose yourself in nature to find Beauty

#Lose yourself in meditation to find Balance

#Lose yourself in the moment to find Life

#Lose yourself in someone to find the new You

#Lose your cool and just to find people dead (lol)

I also keep losing things…grrr.. Anyway. I learnt that it’s important to lose.

Lose a match, fight, relationship, phone (arghhh), wallet, clothes, shoes, people,etc. Oh no I won’t say losing makes us humble.

I say …

We lose just to find (upgraded versions).

The whole process of losing and finding adds meaning to ourselves. The Buddha says ‘Life is a balance of holding on and letting go’.

Hold on to yourself and let go of what you are not. Lose all that doesn’t belong to you.

Search only for your own self. You may be lost due to relationships, work, society, community, religion, etc. Search only what makes you -YOU irrespective of anything.

Never leave the conquest of knowing yourself and finding the new YOU for…



Idea Credit-my buds Vishal Mural

Editor-my ladoo neice D.C.

5 Random Things I Wanna Do..

1.To sit as a pillion on a moving bike. WONDER WOMAN 😝

(for this maybe I have to learn skates from my kiddo)

2.To steal bite from someone’s plate in a

crowded party. YES!!YES!!YES!!

(now that’s easy!! Just that I have to be quick.i didn’t find find the exact GIF🙄)

3.To burgle this damn shop and relish every bite..


 (i would plan this theft with pallu)

4.Wink at the bartender and get a drink for free…


(oh! I need to practise this)

5.To dance with govinda on New York streets maybe. OMG I AM GONNA FAINT

(this I am all geared up for)


…you can be a nice person to at least one person you have lived beautifully

….you can be soft to at least one person you have a heart

…you can be kind to at least one person you are a human

…you can make at least one person smile you are a delight

…you can show faith in at least one person you have given chances to possibilities

…you can drop all your fears in front of one person once indeed at least you loved truly!

After all we all live in IF’s (conditions) and BUT’s (reason)…

Just that these few genuine IF’s will create less IF’s and more WHY NOT’ s?

Definitely more power within and life around. It restores the faith in our being because

No One Is You And That Is Your Power!


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Bakkbakk Jay

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