The importance of knowing when to Stop!!!
It is equally important as a Start..
Start can be now, here,today. It’s any moment when you decide to ACT, that is a start.
But, when to STOP..how do we decide that? At least for a person like me.. Who is a fighter, hardcore optimist and believes strongly in goodness.
When do I Stop..
Stop…when my voice falls on deaf ears
Stop…when my words are misunderstood
Stop…when my intentions are questioned
Stop…when my actions are judged
Stop…when my care is taken as disturbance
Stop..when my warmth is tagged as desperation
Stop…when my company is taken for granted
..and when I stop, I make sure it’s a stop and not a halt.
When you chose to say stop and have courage to act on it…is when you give a start to your being.
A staunch stop is directly proportional to the value you give to yourself.
Draw a line as to who gets to touch your being. Be choosy. Give in only to those worth your intensity and your genuineness. For you are rare. Not all deserve exclusivity.
Maintain distance for who are not your tribe..
We all are beautiful in our own way..respect all:)
Never ever forget….
NO ONE IS YOU AND THAT IS YOUR POWER!!!
Specially to youth readers… know when to stop when it’s an emotionally abusive relationship or drugs or alcohol or watching porn.
But be relentless when it’s your goals, aspirations, adding value and soul to your being.