BB Post #01- On Emotions.

BB QUESTION NUMBER#01

I loooove hindi masala bollywood picha! (The best refresher). The premier of BB post has to be bollywood desi style. I love desi (indian) style, be it fashion or food. Couldn’t find a better song  to introduce our premier question which is on emotions.

So,

What is emotion?

Emotions roots from mind hence it has psychic effect on us. Our mind can always be trained. A Well trained mind is a powerful force to reckon with. Training our mind,emotions, so that

ye dil mera sajna emotional fool na ho!

( my heart beloved,doesn’t become emotional fool).

The Solution-

EI that’s Emotional Intelligence, see the following image-

How do we that?

LISTEN#PAUSE#THINK# SPEAK

HOLD ON#REPLY

#DO NOT REACT

#CALM IS SUPER POWER

REASON#QUESTION#YOUR#EMOTION

Mostly the negative one’s

ANGER#FEAR#CONTEMPT#SADNESS#DISGUST

Behna (sister) emotions are not to be accepted that’s when the problem arises!  Emotions are to be expressed, be it any kind, but mostly we should choose to express the positive one’s.

Human nature biggest problem is EXPECTATION!

Be a genuine guide, help, support to your loved ones , with or without they asking, do your duty. Then STEP BACK. Let them take the FINAL CALL ( this means no emotions involved in this, it’s purely facts and reasoning).  That’s how too many disappointments can be avoided and expectations too.Draw THE LINE!

Oh yes! Emotions make us look like fools, absolutely agree to it. It’s because emotions are very funny. For example – at times you want to kill that someone with fit of your anger and next moment you want to kill that person with your love. So you see,they just fool us!

They keep coming and going,one wrong move when our emotions are at its intensity (mostly the negative ones) we may end up hurting people, this backfires us, even if we are doing it out of love  and intentions are right. Here we need to apply our reasoning,our mind and heart combined ,shall help us avoid making us fool of ourselves.

Beautiful emotions create beauty around.Positive emotions,intentions create positive vibes wherever we go, that’s a contagious energy my sisters!!

General Protocol-

May be…

Men + Emotion= Anger

Women + Emotion = Drama/ Tantrums

And please behno( sisters) we should be not like hindi daily soaps,  cut the drama from real life. Any sensible person hates it. Also we don’t need to show them or anyone for that matter, that we need a shoulder to cry on or we are oh! so vulnerable, which we are not.

In Fact we are stronger than men in every way, just that at times we go overboard emotionally and men hide it or less expressive may be or just vent it in anger.

Vote of Thanks-

To  my Behna Mrs.Tak, for her courage to question, she shall be awarded BB trophy ( for premiere question) next month ( when question BB number 02 will be answered)  applause!!!

I hope I have answered your question satisfactorily! Well that’s my thought process,which all may not agree. So request all the other behnas (sisters) and male readers too,  please do put in your thoughts across in the comment box below the post.

 This is my way to connect with my reader friends across the globe.Thank you for your time. Happy Reading!

(P.S. My dear readers BB is a monthly blog, keep sending your questions. The identity can always remain anonymous.RAISE YOUR VOICE, see you next month. Until then

BeSafe#ScarePeopleAround#WithCalmness

BeRare#BeYou)

24 thoughts on “BB Post #01- On Emotions.

  1. Hem says:

    God Bless:
    Emotions. After reading this..
    N just thought came in my mind abt decisionz
    Written by Chalk can be wiped easily..
    Like written by pencil n if lightly can be erased.. Written dark n deeply by pencil can leave scars.. Written by pen.. Difficult to rub.. May tare the page or leave a dirty scare…. Written by permanent ink. Cant be wiped
    Decisions of life r also the same
    Some r so important that have to be taken care fully as one mistake n a scare for lifetime…. Although we would wanna leave them behind.. But people would get enough time to scribble them..

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  2. Dhruvi says:

    U write really nice blogs ,u make aur day complete by ur blogs all Your blogs are highly sensible n should me recommend to all the people who are demotivated
    (With love n affection ) I seriously like your blogs

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  3. Sarika tak says:

    Very well explained Behna😘bth scientifically n practically πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘πŸ»veryyy much satisfied wid d answer n may b after reading dis emotional ppl will surely make an attempt of dealing wid their emotions more by their brains rather den using their herats everywhere n perfectly right as u said jst Guide n Step back don’t worry abt d results afterall d Final call shuld b theirsπŸ™πŸ»n thanks fr d appreciation fr d question God blessπŸ‘πŸ»πŸ™ŒπŸ»

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  4. Rabia Bari says:

    Really love your blogs jay. They always seem to strike a chord. Behna aise hi likhte rehna 😊.look forward to reading more of your blogs.

    Liked by 1 person

  5. Divisa says:

    Truly believe this emotions make us fool. Very well explained jay.. keep blogging ur blogs r like suspense movie we keep waiting for next suspense interesting blog πŸ˜‰

    Liked by 1 person

  6. akshay says:

    love when people take such steps to help others..really appreciate your time and effort..i would like to say a big THANK YOU for making things much knowledgeable

    Liked by 1 person

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