Parent’s Dilemma#02

….As a parent I too faced dilemmas like….

which child specialist doctor should I take my child??which cerelac to serve at what age????                            which kind of diaper pants would be most comfortable for my child???                                                                            which walker and teether is safest for my child???( and the first time mommies,LOL, don’t ask! Me too by the way).

Now it gets a bit more serious like, ( it’s like make or break for my child ha!!! hehe).

which kindergarten I should send my child??? (local or established)

which board my child should study??? ( icse, cbse, state ,ib, and so many more, phew!!!)

what? where? and which? classes my child  would go- dance, sports, music, drawing? ( what’s trending, may be guitar classes, cool!!).

And some more dilemmas continue like,( now bit more complex ones).

which stream should my child choose???

which college???

what job profile???

then arrange marriage or love???

…….and on… and on… and on…..

The saga continues.

My dear fellow parents it’s obvious we all want the best of the best for our children, at all the stages of their life. We as parent make an effort to give all the necessary, in fact more than necessary facilities to our child that they get better future than us.

There is tuitions, classes for academics ( intellectual assistance), varied classes for creative development of child ( polishing their skills) ,  sports activities (physical growth). All these  facilities we are providing as their guardian so that they would perform at best of their abilities in whatever they do. But in this hustle bustle, among intellectual development, physical activity and creative skills, are we missing on something?

Yes! we are. Thats their MIND! Before I go further, following is the basic  meaning given by oxford dictionary of intellect and mind-


the faculty of reasoning and understanding objectively, especially with regard to abstract matters.

the element of a person that enables them to be aware of the world and their experiences, to think, and to feel.

So friends how do we understand the MIND?

 Is it  to be assumed that everyone does think, feel and understand but the question here is  ‘are we understanding it in the right perspective for a positive growth’.



(…to be continued in next blog.)


14 thoughts on “Parent’s Dilemma#02

  1. Actually Right wat u wrote …all parents think d same 😜Me hav a good experience of it as u knw to think d same things over n over again fr 3 times😜Well expressed in words….parents should really understand dat wat their child learns is all through their actions n reactions👍🏻👌🏻

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