..dhishkyaau..dhishoom…!!!!

Areyy sunn naa.. pata chala… kya??? Woh hai naa 203 waale Sharma ji..wunki beti..haa wahi pehle number waali? haan haan.. Sunna tha chakkar chal raha hai, hogaya… ‘DIVORCE’…. Waaaahhh! One more new juicy gossip.Sooooooo much fun I tell you. Mazza aagaya!!! Aj khaanaa jyada jaayega pait mein..Strange… But true isn’t it???

Majority of us discuss someone’s personal life without having slightest knowledge on it. Dude!!… On second thoughts, why have knowledge???  Remember ‘GREAT MINDS DISCUSS IDEAS,  AVERAGE MINDS DISCUSS EVENTS,  SMALL MINDS DISCUSS PEOPLE’ said Eleanor Roosevelt. I say  ‘you choose… your mind’. And by the way how does anyone’s personal life affect us?….. Ohhh!!! Ohhh!!! Oh!!! Entertainment!!! Entertainment!!! Entertainment!!! Is it??? Chalo phir thik hai. Kuch toh entertainment hona chaiye life main. Woh bhi free free free.

Divorces pe essay nai likhna.Nor is that I wanna favour any gender. Or speak for and against it. Divorces these days are too common for whatever reasons or for no reason at all. It is possibly one of the most devastating decision of any couple’s life. It affects direct families and children. The shocking rise in rates of divorces, is questioning the very base of institution of marriage. Also affecting the social structures on the whole.                            

              Marraige is a beautiful institution.  Which enables two people involved grow, learn, nurture. Becoming the two most important pillars and foundation of having a family. Before deciding on marriage couples should not decide the circumstances, because circumstances are different post marriage. Keep it real,practical and not fanciful like hindi movies. I mean like those Barjatiya movies. LOL

             Moreover ‘divorcee mahila’ ko humarey sabhya  Bhartiya samajh main bohat I mean really bohat respect dee jaati hai. Ke bas aap poocho hee mat. Kahin  bhi jaao..toh khuss poos ‘ divorcee hai??’..’divorcee hai??’… ‘divorcee hai??’.. What the hell…alien nai, insaan hai. No one bloody hell call names to men.

Men get their prospective bride in a blink of an eye lid ( kabhi kabhi back to back do teen shaadiya…wah). Women are just pushed into a marriage, if the guy is rich or  poor. Bas mil gaya ladka kara do shaadi.I also think men are weaker emotionally than women ( mard ko dard nai hota,  agar ho bhi toh, who cares??? Kaun sunnta hai bechaarey ki).

According to me it’s not only a man and a wife bond.  But every beautiful bond is not easy. Actually anything beautiful in life is not easy. Hate is easy, Love isn’t. Rude is easy, Polite isn’t. Hurt is easy, Nurture isn’t. Letting Go is easy, Holding On isn’t. At the end it’s between you and yourself. Not between you and others. ‘What you seek. Is seeking you’- Rumi.

We are what we speak, above all what we speak for others, defines us and not them.’ BE A VOICE, NOT AN ECHO.’ Get a life mahn!!!! Seriously bro B-) 

                

 

 

 

21 thoughts on “..dhishkyaau..dhishoom…!!!!

  1. Marriage is more of a conscious decision for both counterparts. Marriage needs a more mature state of main because it’s more of a responsibility than just mere fun. It’s a 20 year project once you get into it and one cannot just leave the project halfway.

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  2. chitra thakur says:

    One other quote well known is that marriage is NOT a newly hot-cooked rice. When you swallow a spoonful and accidentally scortch your tongue you could spit it out.
    Marriage needs work exerted by two people who try to understand each other despite their differences. It’s not always supposed to be a roller coaster ride that only goes up.
    And most importantly, the rest of the world doesnt even have to know a couple’s problem. Only they, should fix it by themselves with trust, honesty and rational thinking.

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  3. Avinash Shetty says:

    I liked the way you highlighted this and it is written quite beautifully .. focusing on gossip mongers too .. just that instead of focusing on marraige per se .. you could majorly focuses on ‘relationship’ because i feel after all it all starts with that ‘relationship’ … overall good one

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  4. Rushaal says:

    We have simple understanding in our marriage life….

    when we fight if it was my mistake i say sorry and when its her mistake she forgives me…

    Jokes apart…. Badhiya likha aapne.

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  5. Sarika tak says:

    Marriage n Divorce a very sophisticated N subtle topic on which nwdays ppl r jst interested in peeping in others windows n jst need a chance of pointing out on pointless things….n so very true dat marriage is a box wer u put less n remove more u hav an empty box in yr hand so dis BLOG will surely make ppl think wisely on their own MARRIAGE rather than gossiping on others DIVORCE …👍🏻Continue implementing yr thoughts d same way JAY😘

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